Had this on from Jacki, on Facebook in response to “When fat shaming works“:
“Perhaps an understanding of how the woman’s mind works especially about her weight will help.”
Ooo how bitchy. (and I don’t even know her)
So I cheekily replied with this:
“An understanding of a womans mind, now you are talking rubbish, that’s just impossible!!haha (wink emoticon). We are all entitled to our opinions Jacki, I have been doing this for 20 years and am more than happy to call women out on their bullshit, and understand the time to do it and the time not to. We would likely be a horrible fit if you don’t like this article or hearing the truth. Thanks for your comment.”
I may have made things worse with that response.
But it was ok, just before I got lynched, one of my lovely ladies came to the rescue.
Victoria K said this:
“I know I for one prefer to be slapped by the truth than kissed with a lie, within reason of course lol.. Yes it can hurt but when you actually reflect on it, you often realise that it was nothing more than constructive criticism, then you can make positive changes and life goals to change it.. and if you’re being completely honest it will hurt because deep down you know it’s the truth (smile emoticon). xXx”
As I said in the original article, I’m here to help people change their lives, even if it hurts a little.
And in my experience, changing your life for the better, is never a bed of roses.
When someone is brave enough to be honest with you, try to appreciate it, EVEN IF IT HURTS LIKE HELL.
You never know, maybe something good will come of it.
Or maybe not.
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